It was just when the engagement between our daughter and a promising young man who works under my husband had been happily settled, and it had been decided that they would get married six months later, after our daughter graduated from college, that we heard that the two of them had taken advantage of their time off to go on a premarital trip to Okinawa. My husband was absolutely furious with the young man, demanding to know what on earth he thought he was doing, and he was so angry that he seemed ready to call off the engagement.— Jreibun